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We hear these words zillions of times “Mommy, I am bored. What should I do? I am done with my work? Now what?” And we don’t have answer to their question or should I say boredom. It’s funny that when kids are young with limited understanding, they never face this so called boredom. They explore the world in their own way and always find something or other to keep themselves busy. But when they grow old and they have more options, boredom strikes them easily.

I think, kids are so used of doing things in structured manner that they don’t know what to do with their free time. Every time we cannot give them a list of things to do. Sometimes they have to figure it out on their own. Studies show that sometimes, its okay for the kids to get bored. So, why is boredom important? It help the kids to think out of the box. Along with this one advantage, there are many more…

• They learn problem solving. They develop internal stimulus instead of seeking external help.
• It forces the child to enjoy simple pleasures. Pretend play is a classic example of that which leads us to the next point.

• It not only boosts their creativity  but also fosters their imagination abilities. They might discover new hobbies or interests.
• They learn to think on their own, figuring out ways to keep themselves occupied. Boredom sometimes gets uncomfortable which pushes them to try new things.
• They are less likely to whine and complain when they know the alternatives to entertain themselves.
• Teaches them socializing skills: They learn to interact with the world in a much matured and clear manner. When you take them out in a park instead of them watching TV at home, they’re more absorbed with what’s going on around them.

Boredom is not always pleasant, obviously when you don’t want it. It is not comfortable for anyone. But remember, it teaches kids to get over it on their own.