The beauty of childhood is it is pure and full of hopes. Children believe in fairy tales. They believe in some magic wand that will fulfill their wishes. As we grow old, we stop believing in fairy tales. But do we forget to dream? No. All of us have dreams about our life. But sometimes, we don’t know what needs to be done to make a wish come true. Is it as simple as blowing the candles and making a wish?

We can influence ourselves and achieve whatever we want to achieve. Most of us probably think that how come some people can make all their wishes come true? They just think about it, and it happens. They are luckier than us. God is extra happy with them.

But can your dreams come true simply by wishing? Absolutely!

Define your wish:

“Wishes do come true. You just have to believe in what you are wishing for.”

We sometimes become greedy. When one wish is fulfilled, we start thinking about what next. There is no end to our wishes. Now, there has to be some limit. Otherwise, we will never be happy and satisfied no matter how much we get. That’s why define and filter your desire.  It is essential to understand that the dream is your own and not “dictated” by someone.

How you say it:

Your wish cannot be termed as “I would like to…”. Rather, it should be called as “I want to…” . When we word it as we want, we are more clear and focused. I want to be much calmer. Vs. I would like to be much calmer. The former is a direction which we are giving our mind. And the latter is giving us an option that if it doesn’t happen, then it’s okay.

Visualization:

I cannot stress enough the importance and power of visualization. To make the Universe understand our dreams, we have to visualize it. Once you have a wish, explore how you would feel already being there. Happy? Relieved? Focus the best outcome and try to imagine it by experiencing it in your mind. Sometimes we get tense thinking about the obstacles, but visualization will help you understand the overall picture. Then you can go deeper and look for the restrictions. You may realize that it wasn’t something external that was coming in your way, but it was the internal resistance. It will give you a clear picture.

Action:

Like every desire that we want to fulfill, we have to take steps if we want to fulfill our wishes. We have to work hard towards making it possible. Some wishes come true with hard work and determination. Think about a wish that you can make come true if you put your mind to it. Think about what you can do each day towards making your wish come true and create an action plan that starts today. Have fun making your wish come true!

If you want to move one step forward, instead of thinking about what YOU wish for, take some time today to focus on what you think your friends and family members might want to. It can be as simple as folding the laundry, doing the dishes, spending more time with the kids, or doing something without being asked for. So do what you can to make someone else’s wish come true today!